Porn Sex and Relationships

My personal coments about porn, sex and its influence on relationships nowadays.

Sunday, April 23, 2006

PORN SITES

Porn sites are responsible for the latest revolution in the industry of pornography, since the popularization of the videocassette and porn video stores. Thanks to porn sites, anyone is able to access pornographic content from anywhere having an internet connection and most important, anonymously. The possibility of anonymous access to porn was something near to impossible until the popularization of the internet and it’s no surprise that one of the first uses of the web was to trade naughty pictures among users.

In the beginning, porn content was restricted to Usenet groups, until pages and connections become good enough to organize content in websites (porn content is heavy, since its composed mostly by pictures and video files). Then, all porn sites were free, and all users had free access to any pornographic content. Later, webmasters started to realize that most people would pay to see porn if that was the only option. Commercial websites had to offer something more to the users, such as more hardcore pictures or special videos. Today, the vast majority of porn sites are paid and the few free sites still survive thanks to advertising of other products such as sex toys or even other paid porn sites.

Currently, porn sites comprise the largest part of the internet content. Porn sites are so common that one of the biggest issues of the computer world today is to find a way to limit such content. Several attempts have been made to avoid and restrict the access of porn sites by children and people in countries where pornography is forbidden by cultural or religious issues. There is also the problem of child pornography in which the internet also plays a major role. Police is fighting fire with fire by using the internet to find child pornographers. The larger the bandwidth of porn sites become, more content they are able to comprise.

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Friday, February 10, 2006

Porn, Sex and Relationships

There are reactions of all sorts when the subject is porn or sex. To some people, the porn material means offensive, without any value, while for others it is a hobby or a pastime to release sexual energy. The discomfort about porn is usually related to one’s moral and social values. Many individuals feel guilty after being in contact with any kind of porn. Some of them do it alone for masturbation purposes, much as with the partner. Those who don’t admit the practice and hide it from theirs mates bear the tendency to feel deeply in guilt.
Occasional users feel strongly opposed to the use of porn and bear guilt overburden in comparison to those into more often porn consuming. The frequent consumption appears to desensitize the conscience of the users, regardless of their sexual gender. People, especially women, seem to deal better with the use of porn in couple than alone. It’s usual that someone feels hurt or offended when the partner employs porn on his own, experiencing its relationship related problems. As it so happens especially when one of them partners finds it stimulating while their partner finds it offensive.
The problem is major when the use of porn becomes compulsive, creating tension in the relationship. Women, for example, may imagine that men don’t find them exciting enough and feel they can't compete with images of girls with perfect bodies and that are always sexually available as forward. It may be related to the reasons for porn use. While most men use it for masturbation purposes only, women who feel guilty about looking at porn alone are the ones likely to search for the material because of their sex-life insufficiently satisfying.
The porn, however, can be a way to spice up the sexual life of a couple, giving ideas that can be practiced in bed, arousing the partners and leading them to open conversation. The communication resolves any conflict, and the couple should discuss honestly any given issue, explaining their feelings towards porn, being different opinions respected. They may consider yet stopping the practice altogether in case it hurts any one of them, aware that there are different types of porn – while hardcore porn can be offensive for some couples, erotica can be just as stimulant.